June 7, 2010

My Partner Is My Bestfriend


I had to choose a single characteristic that has made our relationship

remain special, fun, and vibrant over the years.

It would probably be that the two of us are,

first and foremost,really good pals.


Make no mistake about it,---we're all the other things, too.

We are committed to each other and faithful.

We share an overwhelming love for our kids, similar

values and goals, shared interest and mutual respect.

As well as an attraction for one another.


Yet, as wonderful and important as all of these other characteristics

are, none of them guarantees keeping your love for each other alive and strong.


After all, there are many faithful couples who bicker in the car on their way to church. There are plenty of wonderful couples who share the same values, yet

they are constantly irritated at one another.


But when you are good friends, however, everything seems to take care of

itself. Pals support one another. They make allowances for each other`s imperfections and usually very good listeners. They stay connected sharing

in the good times and being there for each other during difficult times.


Me and my hubby are convinced that having a great friendship is the best way

to secure a great relationship, the rest is pretty easy.


Being really good friends is a gift, and a goal worth pursuing.

And im so blessed that i found a best friend and a partner in one!

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